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Not having enough in the account to pay bills, rent, tuition, etc. are significant issues we face when we struggle with our finances. How do you deny that reality?
Before we start, take a moment to think about the quote below:
“You never get beyond scarcity; you have to start beyond it”
- Tony Robbins
The fastest way (and the only way) to be abundant is to start with abundance, not scarcity. However, this is challenging, given that scarcity is very real. Not having enough in the account to pay bills, rent, tuition, etc. are significant issues we face when we struggle with our finances. How do you deny that reality?
For many, working hard is not a problem, the issue is, even after working hard and giving everything, it is not enough to make ends meet. In situations like these, we are trapped in the cycle of scarcity, unable to see a way out of it.
If finances have been stagnant for you, or worse, have taken the u turn, the best place to start is an abundant mindset.
So, what is an abundance mindset?
In the simplest terms, an abundant mindset is the deep knowing that there is enough for everyone in this world. It is a belief that you have all the tools you need to live your best life. And everything will become available to you as and when you need it. That it is not about win-lose, but about win-win. While an abundant mindset can mean different things to different people, here are a few specific descriptors that help us daily:
You are enough
Everything starts with you. And the buck also stops with you. Knowing that you are enough and believing that you have the capability to achieve the level of financial success that you dream about is more important than anything else. Unless you have the courage and confidence that you can do it, financial freedom will be hard to achieve. The best thing you can do is to learn and develop that confidence. There are many ways to go about it. Ask a friend, who has this quality and request if they can coach you, spend time with you to help you through your hurdles. You can get professional help if this is particularly challenging for you. You can even hire a coach or take an online class that may help you (Mindvalley, for instance, has many such courses). There are many ways to develop a belief in yourself. Make sure you start with believing in yourself first before going ahead.
Here are some quotes to help you get started on the journey of believing that you are enough:
“You’re worthy of greatness, even if you don’t see it yet.”
– Lauren Jarvis-Gibson
“Encourage yourself, believe in yourself, and love yourself. Never doubt who you are.”
– Stephanie Lahart
“Dismantle your wounds so you stop living your life by them.”
– Nikki Rowe
“I exist as I am, that is enough.”
– Walt Whitman
“You are enough just as you are.”
– Meghan Markle
“Don’t doubt your value. Don’t run from who you are.”
– Aslan
“True abundance is feeling worthy enough to believe beyond what you can see. Expect miracles and they will manifest.”
- Sarah Prout
“The entire universe is conspiring to give you everything you want.”
- Abraham Hicks
“When you undervalue who you are, the world will undervalue what you do and vice versa.”
— Suze Orman
There is enough for everyone
Once you have confidence in yourself, this step will become much easier.
For years, subconsciously, the idea of scarcity has been drilled in us. There are only certain seats available in a top school, only the best will get that scholarship, if he wins, I lose. Our view of the resources is quite binary – if he gets it, I do not. But an abundant mind does not work that way. When it comes to abundance, there is enough for everyone. The universe is vast and large. It has infinite resources at its disposal. There is no way any of us can truly know its vastness and power. Just because you did not get that promotion does not mean that you lose. It means that a better opportunity is waiting for you around the corner. Life has figured out a way to make both your dream come true. Believe that there is truly enough to go around. Things will always work out for you if you believe and work towards it.
Here are some quotes on the universal abundance:
"Expect your every need to be met, expect the answer to every problem, expect abundance on every level, expect to grow spiritually."
—Eileen Caddy
“When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.”
- Lao Tzu
“I am wealth. I am abundance. I am joy.”
—David Cameron Gikandi
“There’s enough for everyone. If you can believe it, if you can see it, if you act from it, it will show up for you. That’s the truth.”
- Michael Beckwith
Thinking big
Thinking abundant does not mean, “I just want to pay my bills” or “I want just enough to cover my debts”. Thinking abundantly is thinking bigger. If you truly do not need the money for yourself, think about how you can transform the lives of others when you are financially free. Pursue larger goals that are bigger than your upliftment. How can you set a trust for generations to come? How can you change the lives of others if the universe is abundant towards you?
“Aim for the moon. If you miss, you may hit a star.”
- W. Clement Stone, American Businessman
“Think bigger. Forget limits. Embrace the idea of endless possibility…. It will change you.”
– Marianne Williamson
“Make no small plans for they have no power to stir the soul.”
– Niccolo Machiavelli
“Whatever you are thinking, think bigger.”
– Tony Hsieh
“Start small, think big. Don’t worry about too many things at once. Take a handful of simple things to begin with, and then progress to more complex ones. Think about not just tomorrow, but the future. Put a ding in the universe.”
— Steve Jobs
“It always seems impossible until it’s done.”
– Walt Disney
“To be successful, you must act big, think big and talk big.”
– Aristotle Onassis
“It’s never too late to think big. Widen your horizons. Look beyond your normal limits. See things in a larger picture. Consider the next step. The flow-on effect. Opportunities will become evident. Motivations will become clear. Perspective will emerge. One must live the way one thinks or end up thinking the way one has lived.”
— Paul Bourget
Giving back
Money is a river, here to nourish you and nurture you. It flows then to other pastures for enrichment. Do not try to hold the flowing river all to yourself. Do not build a dam to control it. Let it free. It really does not matter how you give back – but do. Lend money to someone who needs it, donate money if you can, volunteer, or donate your time, or help someone in need. There is always a way to give back no matter what situation you are in.
This helps in restoring our faith in the world, helps us appreciate what we have, and truly believe that there is enough here for everyone. It also breaks the constant feeling of lack that develops when we are struggling financially. Giving back helps us unplug that scarcity mindset and reduce the resistance.
Here are some quotes on abundance and giving back:
“When we give generously, with an abundance mentality, what we give away will multiply.”
Henri Nouwen
“The heart that gives, gathers.”
—Marianne Moor
“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.” – Oscar Wilde
– Oscar Wilde
“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.”
— William Shakespeare
“Even if you just change one life, you’ve changed the world forever.”
– Mike Satterfield
A good relationship with money
Have you stopped for a moment and thought about your relationship with money? If money were a person, how would you describe your relationship? As a child, what have you heard your parents say about money? Have you heard things like:
“We don’t have money for that”
“Money does not grow on trees”
“Fancy car drivers are jerks”
“He is probably spoiled because he has a lot of money”
Take a moment and write down all your beliefs about money. Ask yourself this – do you subconsciously disrespect money and believe that it is the “root of all evil”? If so, how will you ever attract money in your life, if you believe that it's evil? You and money will stay as far away as possible from each other.
The thing is, we often fall prey to beliefs about money that hamper our growth. Having the mindset of abundance means having a good relationship with money. It is not hated and or is it an obsession. Understanding our biases and working on our beliefs will help greatly in developing a better relationship with money.
“Money is not the root of all evil…ignorance is the root of all evil. People do cruel and foolish things for money because they feel oppressed by a sense of lack. If people knew their power to generate wealth, they would never fight or hurt each other over money.”
—Alan Cohen
“You can become instantly successful with a simple thought, but long-lasting and pronounced success comes to those who renew their commitment to a mindset of abundance every minute of every hour of every day.”
Bryant McGill
We hope you now understand in somewhat clear terms what it means to have an abundant mindset. The next step is to understand why is it important to have an abundant mindset? How will it help you if you think abundantly? We explain all of this, and more in our next article, “Why is it important to have an abundant mindset” followed by "How to achieve an abundant mindset".